🚩 Relationship Red Flags Quiz

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Relationship Red Flags Quiz illustration: example result 💚 / 🚩 (12 warning signs) — A private 12-question check for relationship red flags — control, jealousy, isolation, gaslighting, pressure and anger — with support numbers if…
Red Flags Quiz: A private 12-question check for relationship red flags — control, jealousy, isolation, gaslighting, pressure and anger — with support numbers if…. Example result: 💚 / 🚩 — 12 warning signs. For fun only.

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📘 About the Red Flags Quiz

Red flags are behaviours that suggest a relationship may be controlling or unhealthy. This private quiz asks how often your partner shows twelve warning signs listed by domestic-abuse charities, from checking your phone and controlling money to isolation, gaslighting, pressure and frightening anger.

You'll see which flags appeared and how serious the pattern looks. If anything suggests you might be unsafe, the result includes helpline numbers for India, the US and the UK. This one is never shared with your answers.

✏️ Worked example

A few yellow flags

You enter
1. Checks your phone or messages without askingOnce or twice
2. Controls your money or what you spendNever
3. Tries to keep you from friends or familyNever
4. Gets extremely jealousOnce or twice
5. Insults, mocks or belittles youNever
6. Denies things you clearly remember (“that never happened”)Never
7. Uses the silent treatment as punishmentOnce or twice
8. Pressures you after you've said noNever
9. Threatens to leave or hurt themselves to control youNever
10. Has anger that scares youNever
11. Never apologises — it's always your faultOnce or twice
12. Showers you with love, then suddenly goes coldNever
You get
Red flag score11%
VerdictA few yellow flags 🟡
What it meansMostly fine, with one or two things worth discussing calmly.
Flags found4 of 12

A few yellow flags 🟡.

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❓ Frequently asked questions

What are red flags in a relationship?

Controlling behaviour, extreme jealousy, isolating you, insults, gaslighting, pressure after you say no, threats and anger that scares you.

Is one red flag a reason to leave?

One bad moment isn't always a pattern, but threats, fear or violence are serious on their own. Trust your feelings and talk to someone.

Where can I get help?

India: 181 (Women Helpline) or 112. US: 1-800-799-7233. UK: 0808 2000 247. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.

Is this result real or scientific?

No — it's for fun and entertainment. Love is built by two people through kindness, trust and effort, not by names, numbers or stars. Enjoy it, share it, and don't make big decisions on it.