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Every relationship has strong and weak spots. This 12-question quiz checks the areas relationship researchers link with lasting, happy couples — trust, communication, respect, handling disagreements, fun, support, affection, personal space, shared goals, appreciation, fairness and feeling safe.
You get a relationship health score, a rating for each area and a practical tip for any area that needs care. Your answers stay private even if you share the score.
| 1. I trust my partner. | Mostly |
| 2. We talk openly, even about hard things. | Mostly |
| 3. We treat each other with respect, even when upset. | Mostly |
| 4. We sort out disagreements without big fights. | Mostly |
| 5. We have fun and laugh together. | Mostly |
| 6. My partner supports my goals. | Mostly |
| 7. There's enough affection between us. | Mostly |
| 8. We each have our own friends and space. | Mostly |
| 9. We want the same things for the future. | Mostly |
| 10. We show appreciation for each other. | Mostly |
| 11. Chores and money feel fair. | Mostly |
| 12. I feel safe with my partner. | Mostly |
| Relationship health | 67% |
| Verdict | Needs some care 🧡 |
| What it means | Several areas need attention. Small, regular changes help a lot. |
| Work on | Nothing urgent — lovely! |
Health 67%.
Try this example →Trust, respect, honest communication, fair conflict, support for each other's goals and feeling safe and free to be yourself.
Pick one area to work on together. Many couples also find a counsellor helpful — it's a sign of care, not failure.
Yes — take it separately and compare your scores.
No — it's for fun and entertainment. Love is built by two people through kindness, trust and effort, not by names, numbers or stars. Enjoy it, share it, and don't make big decisions on it.